a deeper premise of honesty
has house rules for the telling
and house rules for hearing
the telling is over-eroded
by the listener’s assumptions
while the listening
is under-chaperoned by the teller
honesty is a proposed contract
presented to the listener
inquiry is the work
of this second party
as an out-of-context summary
in that it is redeemed
as working towards motive
or as account given from perspective
I have a voice inside
and he is my confessor
he is conscientious
and streetwise at the same time
he finds honesty
in all that he hears
and persists
to find its original intent
in what is being said
the common shared version
has a different value
to each party
can the buzz from honesty
be equal to the all
if dissected honesty
is an after-the-fact summary?
honesty is a designed occurrence
to survive reprimand
in an if-I-were-you
in a second-hand experience exchange
where I swap my version
as I expect you to hear it
for your personalized treatment
of my version said directly to you
silence is
as the agreement response requested
surely it can be upped
by anecdotal parallel in reply
certainly for a listener
to be contained by what is said
is not the underbelly premise assumed
by saying anything at all
for honesty among friends
is data added to the file
there is no position
of suspicion to entertain
the entertainment
is the embellishment of engagement
either by accounts of what you think
or what you say you feel
honesty invoked
in response to a question
has a set of needs
to be fulfilled for the listener
the response range
reflects a depth and a distance
white lies are mostly for those
considered strangers
while serious lies
protect or please
for relationships to persist
altering perceptions
to be seen favorably or impress
and pleasing others
to spare their feelings
are easy directives
deeply imbedded behind honesty
self-honesty
may be called Machiavellian
by another
because the clash in value terrains
is that severe
for there is
either common ground
or very little
honestly
the truth cannot be told
we are all barkers
at the self circus
step right up
come and see yourself
as you tell others
honesty is an overture
at agreement to agree
beyond that premise
is a false mirror of self-perception
that I communicate a meaning
does not mean
that I convey my being
when you go to a concert
do you get what you paid for
or do you take what you value
from what is offered?
we are all on-stage performers
with allegiances
but are we all as good
at being honest audience?
what would it be like
to be verbally vindictively honest
without being
vocally self-incriminating?
if Santa Claus were honest
would he really exist?
does compassion or civility
or kindness or sympathy
ever trump honesty
as to the essential intent
of an oral deed?
lying promotes an honesty
that is not revealed
it is a deducible truth
based on a manipulation of intent
when is a deception
a resistance to a privacy invasion?
the complexity does not reside
in what is spoken
but is inherent
in where what is said is spoken from . . .
a deeper premise of honesty
has house rules for the telling
and home rules for hearing
the telling is over-eroded
by the listener’s assumptions
while the listening
is under-chaperoned by the teller
honestly
the truth cannot be told
we are all barkers
at the self-circus
step right up
come and see yourself
as you tell others
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