forgivingness out of ice 4/13/17

Forgiving has a past,

a lingering and disrupting past.

Forgiving has the ever presence of frame.

It has some account in summary that represents a loss,

and possibly a story that describes

to the eventual conclusion,

what all needs to be forgiven.

All of it, the initial interactions, the reactions,

the deep seated disturbances, the assault,

the victimhood, the unhealed wounds,

the heart and the heat of the matter,

the principles at stake,

the simplistic “eye for an eye” motivation,

the self imposed injury to self, the un-replaceable-ness,

the anvil of focus, the rededication to avenge,

that pivotal moment in time, the surround of disgrace,

and the many unending facets of withheld-ness

still potentially bursting forth that will follow.

This is a veritable landscape of inescapability to conquer

in all directions from ground zero of then,

going forward and becoming the unavoidable prominence, potentially evident in every moment hence.

Yes, forgiving-ness has to start with all of these elements

as the apparent basic weave to be dealt with in the process. 

It would seem to be the fundamental work to be done.

But I am claiming it is not!

I am not denying the profoundness of all of this

and its impact but I am saying that there is a need

not only resolve, dissolve and absolve

but also to transcend.

This is all a psychological and emotional landscape map

to an unrevealed deeper truth.

That as long as you fully identify as an isolated self

in this frame,

then this is the wardrobe option readily available to you

for your response in life.

All of this representation has one hidden

but fully functional premise needed to be addressed

in the nature of forgiving.

Forgiving requires at least two separate parties

functionally acting and reacting to each other.

The polarization established by separateness

keeps the pot stirred and the method of resolution

looking like all of the above claims as options to be tackled. Acknowledgment is necessary

but the depth necessary that must go on,

goes beyond these claims and their account and resolution. The world of separatism as individuals

has successfully pronounced and articulated all of this

by its method an occurrence and recount

that seems to need remedy.

Remedy is apparently needed for recovery

from expectations, a sense of ownership and possession, 

actions perceived as dangerous and harmful,

irreplaceable loss, unrecoverable sense of feelings,

a pivotal void in the sense of self,

and the rest of the irrationalities that will surface

in due process as life continues for each of us.

The secret is that there is no forgivingness fully possible

as long as the method of insolated, isolated,

separate self is maintained.

One must address the syntactical nature of how

all of this is taken into account, to have existed

within the identified separateness of oneself.

Forgiving-ness is a process within that structure

and is a method to displace what is regarded as so.

The essential leap in the nature of forgivingness

is to transcend the system itself,

to break out of but not abandon the self-modality.

To exercise empathy in the first person

to all parties involved is needed.

The dynamics behind all of the actions claimed

runs deeper that rational account can express.

Other moments from other times are involved

as spurs or triggers or restimulants

that all contribute below the surface energetically

to what happened but will never surface

in the broadest sense of realization.

Nothing is so simple as blame.

But within the system we customarily use,

the deeper understanding does not directly lead

to healing or even to a mend.

Self love, as mentor, has to include the self of the others

for life to leave the event and come fully present

into the moment of now, going fully forward.

One has to transcend the experiential style

we are trained into and become one with it all

in the dynamics of life going forward.

The energy of self that is blatantly trapped

can also be the force of transcendence to be used.

The realization of a higher sense of self is necessary.

The preoccupation of the past becomes the loadstone

to the currency of now without a sense of oneself

outside of the consensus of the story.

If you are about your hurt then your attention is on

the fashion of self in your separateness.

The true nature of forgivingness is an opportunity

for to you transcend your rational account of self

and give to yourself a permission

to go beyond the dumb-down self boundaries

that we are familiar with and accustomed to.

This discovery is what can express the life of your being 

and not what is the account of your past

as representing your now.

Imagine that you are frozen in a block of ice

until forgivingness happens.

That environment lends itself to not only tears

but also the potential for evaporative means.

No more in the thick of it.

No more residue or remains.

It is back to the fluidity of living in the now

without a frozen sense of being.

Forgivingness has to be to this depth of transcendence,

this evaporative self-sense of grace from within,

for forgivingness to be complete

and life to be the direct experience of your spirit 

consciously present and expressive to life

unfolding going forward.